To all our loving friends and family, I have news I hoped to never have to share. We all met with Pat's medical team today and they have said he is now terminal. The leukemia has spread to his brain they believe and there are no more treatments. Their goal now is to keep him completely comfortable. He is on a morphine pump and not really very coherent. I am so proud of the fight he put up, this is not how he had expected it to end. I truly thought he'd win this battle, there has never been a mightier warrior than he. This morning he kept telling the nurses to tell me he's fine....so like Pat to be worrying about me. Please pray for his comfort and peace, and for our children's strength. You have all been so amazing, my heartfelt thanks.
God Bless.
xoxo,
Jules
63 comments:
Love and blessings and all the time God can spare to you guys.
ALL CAN SAY IS THAT HE WILL BE MISSED DEARLY IN MY FAMILY THE REST OF OUR LIVES !!! GOD BLESS ALL OF THE SMITH FAMILY =====LOVE THE SIEVERS
Dear Julie and Pat,
Thank you for inviting us back into your lives. We have been praying, laughing and crying along with you while reading these blogs.
I so admire you and your strength while you have been sharing with us the trials you have endured. You have been a awesome witness to your love for God and family.
Don't let go of anything...God is so big and so good and loves you so much that he has written every moment of your lives in his book. Your faith is the end and the beginning.
I love you guys...
Edie and Don
Dear Julie,we are so sorry to hear about Pat.The strength that Pat,you and your entire family have shown is an inspiration to us all.You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Bill & Susan Hoyem
Julie, Brady, Brock and Chloe,
We love you guys and Pat so much. Pat has been an inspiration to us all and you have all demonstrated the true strength of family. We will talk to you soon and our prayers are for Pat's comfort as he is surrounded by your love.
Love
The Kaplans
Julie, Pat and Family
We have been thinking of you everyday. May God open his loving arms and take good care of our beloved Pat. We know he will look out for you all. God Bless and we love you.
Jill, Al and all the Vieera and Bellanca Boyz
Julie,Pat Brady,Brock & Chloe:
We are so deeply sorry for this news. Please know that we are praying for peace and comfort during this difficult time..
We love you all very much..
Rck and Linda Lamitie
My stomach hurts and I am just sick!
I really don't know what to say -
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the whole family.
I hope you will keep the blog open and when there comes a time when you just want to blog - I'll be hear to listen.
Take care
Lis
Dear Julie, Pat, Brady, Chloe, & Brock...
The Davidson Family has your entire family in our prayers.
Love,
Larry & Kim
I am so sad to hear this news, I will keep praying for all of you, for strength and peace of heart.I know that God is watching over all of you. Regina & Mike
I'm so sorry to hear this news Julie. I wish your family the best and I pray that Pat can be comfortable during this difficult time.
It sounds strange, but I've gained a lot of strength facing my own health issues (which pale in comparison to what you're experiencing) from reading and feeling the love and support expressed by your friends and family who post here.
God Bless!
Yee Warner
Julie, Chloe, Brock and Brady,
We are deeply saddened for the pain you are now asked to bear and thankful that Pat will no longer be in pain, can rest and when the time comes, will be running into the wide open, loving arms of Jesus hearing a resounding "Well done my child". How happy Pat will be, I hope you can see that through the tears, hard I know.
We will continue to pray with you, cry with you and look forward to the day we will all be together dancing on the streets of Heaven with our loved ones and our Lord. I wish I knew how to attach music to this blog. This song always brings me comfort, I hope these words will do the same for you.
Please tell Pat we love him and will see his smiling face again in the blink of an eye.
God's Best and much love,
The Martel's
"I can only imagine" by Mercy Me
"I can only imagine what it will be like, when I walk by Your side...
I can only imagine, what my eyes will see, when Your Face is before me! I can only imagine.
Surrounded by Your Glory, what will my heart feel? Will I dance for you, Jesus? Or in awe of You, be still? Will I stand in Your presence, or to my knees will I fall? Will I sing 'Hallelujah!'? Will I be able to speak at all?
I can only imagine! I can only imagine!
I can only imagine, when that day comes, when I find myself standing in the Son! I can only imagine, when all I will do, is forever, forever worship You! I can only imagine! I can only imagine!
God bless you Pat.
God bless you and your entire family. You've made an impact in my life and you will be missed.
I love you Pat.
Joe Corrales
Dearest Smith Family,
We are praying for our Lord to grant you a peace beyond all understanding. The courage your family has brought to so many people will forever be present in all of our lives.
As Pat enters the gates of heaven, there will be no more pain or suffering. He will be whole again. I am sure the Lord needs a best friend, and who better then Pat. I know the words now must be running together, but remember how great the Lord is, He gives us the gift of memory, and Pat will remain forever in our hearts
Love,
Aunt Mary
Dear Pat, Julie, Brady, Brock, and Chloe,
We are so sorry. It's hard to find the right words at a time like this, and I know there is nothing I can say that will help or make things right. It's just not fair. But our love and prayers with you guys as always and if there is anything we can do, please just say the word. Pat, you have been so strong. And Julie and the kids too. May you find peace in knowing you did everything possible.
God bless you.
Love,
The Grishaber Family
Dear Pat, Julie, Brady, Brock and Chloe,
I wish there were something I could possibly write that would somehow be a measure of comfort in this trying moment. From the comments I've read here, your family has been and continues to be an inspiration to so many. As dark a day as this is, you should take a small measure of comfort knowing that the way you have gone about the process of living during the recent past is a testament to your faith, your family and ultimately, to love itself. I am humbled by your grace. You are all in my thoughts.
Ezequiel Barragan
Gosh I wish I had all your faith!!I'am so so sorry. My heart aches for you and your family!!Julie in the months and months to come I can offer only my friendship..I wish there was more we all could do...Our love to you,Brady,Brock and Chole,
Perkowski Family
Julie,
Oh my gosh I am soooo sorry for Pat, you and the kids. Please draw strength from the fact that your children and you know how much Pat loves all of you. When a family has time to deal with serious health issues many emotions are shared that usually would not get said, especially by our "macho" men. You probably know what I am talking about. But in the years to come a lot of comfort will be felt by you and the kids because of the special time you have shared with Pat through this ordeal. Plus, your children are old enough to have so many wonderful memories of their dad, even though they are getting short-changed. I know we do not talk often but I feel very close to you and remember how great you have been to me and Loren over the years. Please do not hesitate to walk the dogs over to my house and chat, vent, cry, or whatever you need. Remember Joshua 1:9 says,
Be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.
Julie, He REALLY is with you and will carry you forever. Thank goodness, because there is no other way to get through this but with His strength and your children at your side.
Love,
Kathi Bialik
This is news that we had hoped we would never hear. I don't even know what to say.... Our hearts are aching with you. We are praying for all of you. We are here for you any time any day - just let us know. We love you guys.
Vic, Sandy, Phillip and Tori
Julie-If you're at the hospital reading this tonight, just want you to know how much our family loves all of you. The dogs are so sweet and we had some good conversations today. I'll be there tomorrow at the same time for them. Don't worry about them k? Our prayers are still said for Pat,you,the kids and the rest of Pat's family. We will also be praying for "GOD'S PLAN" in the this as HE only knows what that is right now. I truly believe Pat is being held in God's hands right now. He will hold your family as well. Julie, you and the kids have held so strong in this battle. We've all learned so much from you and we will be here always.
Our never ending love and frienship to all of the Smith's.
Teri, Mark,Cory and Troy Sweeney
I am sorry for you being in the hospital. I love you and I will miss you uncle patrick
PATRICK, WE PRAY SO MUCH TO GOD TO GIVE YOU STRENGTH AND PEACE, AND REMEBER THAT FOR GOD NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE... THERE AREN'T MANY WORDS THAT WE CAN PUT TOGETHER TO EXPLAIN THE FEELINGS THAT WE HAVE IN THESE MOMENTS FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY... WE JUST HOPE FOR YOUR WIFE AND CHILDREN TO RECIEVE THE STRENGH NEEDED IN THESE HARD TIMES. REMEMBER THAT OUR LOVE AND PRAYERS ARE AND WILL ALWAYS BE WITH YOU!
LOVE & HOPE THE BEST,
NACHO AND XOCHITL CEBALLOS
To Julie, Brady, Brock and Chloe,
Our prayers continue for all of you and in our prayers we ask that God help to heal your broken hearts.
God bless Pat!
Tom & Faye Witzel
Dear Pat,
True to your spirit you have remained strong and worried not for yourself but for the welfare of your family. God put us here for a reason and a purpose. You have fulfilled yours and you will truly meet him in heaven. He is waiting for you and there can be no greater comfort for your family than knowing you are loved and accepted into his kingdom. God bless you dear friend. Happy journey. We will all meet again as planned.
Marcia, Rob, Robby and Scott Marycz
To Julie, Brady, Brock and Chloe,
You are the amazing ones. Your grace, dignity and acceptance of God's decision will carry you forward in the tough times ahead. Thank you for sharing Pat's journey with all of us when clearly it could have been your decision to keep it a private family one. Your care network is mighty. Call on it whenever you need it. Please let us be a comfort to you.
You are loved.
To Julie, Brady, Brock and Cloe,
We are so sorry to hear this news. Your family will be in our thoughts and our prayers.
Dave and Kathy Nieto
Jules, Pat and all your family,
Ever since I read the blog my heart has been truly hurting.
I love you all so much,
Cousin Kelly
Pat, Julie, Brady, Brock and Cloe,
Your strengths are amazing. We are praying for all of you and for comfort and peace for Pat. I see the Lord's Arms wrapped around all of you at this most difficult time.
With sorrowful hearts we send our love,
The Barnard Family
Its so hard to say goodbye, so I will say "Save me a seat next to you in Heaven." Know that you are loved more than words can express and your fight has ignited a fire in so many of us...always.
Jules....I love you and you know the rest, no matter the time (cuz you know I don't sleep) You are the bravest woman I know, but its time for us to help you now..ok? Keep your faith strong & let your prayers bring you comfort. God loves you and will guide you always.
Brady, Brock, Chloe,
I wish i could take away your pain, but I can't and I am sorry. Us moms are used to fixing things but we weren't in charge this time. We have to trust in God's plan. Reach out to Him. Love each other and hold each other tight...especially your mom. I love you guys.
Love always,
Terri Hurst
and Bob, Jake, Josh & Jenny too!
Dearest Pat, Julie, Brady, Brock & Chloe,
Some years ago on the occasion of Pat's Birthday, I wrote him a poem to let him know how much I love and respect him. This poem is also a testament from one mother to another and since we all know that Mary has been watching and loving Pat from above and is waiting with open arms to take care of Pat once again, I would like to share this with all of you today.
"Happy Birthday to our Son Patrick"
"On a beautiful June day in eighty-five, you came into our tangled lives. Since you loved Julie, our first daughter, you became our son forever after.
You bring so much to our family every day, with your quiet manner and loving way. All that you do is not done for praise. You wish nothing in return; how you amaze! As a dad you are the family architect, instilling trust and love while respect from your children, Brady, Brock and Chloe, and work as one with equally loving Julie.
Your mother, Mary, deserves such a big hand. She raised a caring, loving and tender man. I only hope, as she looks down from above, she knows "son" is a title given with love.
So, happy birthday, Pat; you deserve the best. Not just today but tomorrow and the rest of your days and birthdays yet to come. Know that you're loved and a very special son!"
With all my heart, I know that Mary is up there waiting to hold her son once again and I want to thank her for allowing me to love him and hopefully care for him in her place until he could get back to her.
Pat,
I will miss you every day for the rest of my life. I couldn't have picked a better man for Julie to share her life with. You are both so perfect for each other. And, as a father, you are untouchable. Thank you for raising three beautiful, loving children.
Julie,
You have been so amazing and I couldn't be more proud of you. My heart is breaking for you as you go through this terrible time. Pat is a wonderful man and he is equally lucky to have you. Your love for him is so apparent and you have shown it always. Thank you for being our daughter. And for being such a fantastic wife, sister and mother.
Brady, Brock & Chloe,
You three are a testament to the parents that have raised you. Your father loves and respects you all and wanted so badly to stay here and continue to watch you grow. He fought with everything he had and he is still fighting. Thank you all for being so loving and caring for your Dad, your Mom and for each other. You are strong and you will go on and always remember the great love you have shared with your Dad.
Love to all,
Mom & Granny
"But they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength, they shall mount up with wings like eagles, they shall run and not be weary, they shall walk and not faint."
Isaiah 40:31
On our knees for you now Julie. Praising God for your amazing support team and His love. Lean heavy on us all.
God's Best.
The Martel's
I can't write a lot right now, the tears are flowing. How many lives have your family touched through this trial? Thousands! Church congregations, prayer groups, families, friends, strangers.
So many people have been affected by your families special strength. Many lives have been changed and I know the Lord will be there all through this journey. He is so proud of your familiy.
Bless all of your family, Pat, Julie, Chloie, Brady, Brock, Nancy, Bob, Dayna, April, and all of Pat's family (I don't know your names). I am praying for all of you.
Aunt Marcie & Uncle Bill
The Smith Family,
You don't know my Family but I will tell you that reading this blog and knowing Pat and Brady a little makes me feel very close. Close enough to have tremendous respect and admiration for all of you, especially Pat. With my heavy heart I pray.
Sincere Blessings,
Dan Smith and Family
The only words I can come up with right now are that I love you Pat and always will. Julie when I look at you I can't help but think of that movie "Steel Magnolias". That's what you are...you are as strong as steel and as beautiful as a flower and everything about you continues to amaze me. This was a long hard fight and the Smith's are one awesome team. I thank you Pat for taking care of my big sister all these years and for giving Beau and Ruby 3 amazing role models in Brady, Brock and Chloe. I only hope Travis and I can do as great a job with them as you did with your children. Every wonderful thing about you will live through them. You are so strong and will be in my heart always. I wish I had told you more that I love you because I do...alot.
All my love and admiration,
April
Dear Pat, Julie, Brady, Brock, Chloe. Terry finally told me how to use this amazing Blog. I have been trying to leave you messages for so long. Our hearts ache for you all. Please know we are here for you, and that we have you in our prayers. You've shown such amazing courage, love, and hope.You are a strong & devoted family I know that will bring you peace in the days to come. we love you Penny, Gordy, Whitney & Jack
Pat, I am so heavy hearted and having been having trouble with the words and how to express them, but here goes. You are one incredible man. Even if I didn't know you, I would be able to see what you are like just by reading all the wonderful letters that your family and friends are writing. You and your family have shown all of us how to love each other and how to be strong. I pray that you can feel all the love that surrounds you.
Julie, I am humbled by you. You have shared so much with all of us and I can't thank you enough. I pray that you and your family find comfort in knowing that you all fought a courageous battle. Sincerely, Sheri Willshire and Joe Hurst
Julie and family,
You don't know me but I belong to a forum with Jill and she has put Pat and your family on our prayer list. May God be with you and your family during this time and know that there are other people praying for you all over the U.S
Glenda Bowling
Texas
Dearest Smith Family,
Our hearts and prayers are with you all.
Mike and Mindee DeAngelo
POPS AND GRAMS .....SEND OUR LOVE....HUGS.....AND LOTS OF PRAYERS.......GOD LOVES YOU....AND SO DO WE!
HUGS.....JERRY AND JACQUIE GRINSTEAD...POPS/GRAMS (TRAVIS/ERIN)
My Dearest Julie, Brady, Brock & Chloe,
Every ounce of my being goes out to you at this cruel time. Your impending loss is simply beyond my comprehension. This cessation of live is too unfair-a life that asked so little-neither riches or fame-just the time to experience those little things that too many of us take for granted. A life that strained just to please take place. He had so many plans for all of you. His time among us was far to brief but it has forever left its mark.
So the beast has won the battle of the flesh. But he can never take from us the experience of witnessing this couragaous struggle by you and your family. You stood in the face of this outrageous doom when you were both so laden with fear that you could in deed barely stand at all. Your example of character, strength and human spirit instills such humility in me while taking such pride in the two of you that I can barely contain myself. This is a life well vested in us all.
I am overwhelmed by the lurking emptiness I know we have yet to face-my soul is sad, teary-eyed and slumping and my heart actually hurts. But I have no fear because I know Pat's secret method, "I'm doing good-I'm OK! How are you guys doing?"
With All My Love and Admiration
(For you too Pat),
Dad
"Dear Lord,
You know my friend so much better than I do. You know his sickness and his need. You also know his heart. Lord, I ask you to be with my friend now, working in his life. Let Your will be done in my friend's life. If there is a sin that needs to be confessed and forgiven, Lord, please help him to see his need and confess. Lord, I pray for my friend because Your Word says I should pray for His healing. I believe You hear this earnest prayer from my heart and that it is powerful because of Your promise. I have faith in You to heal my friend, but I also trust in the plan you have for my friend's life. Lord, I don't always understand Your ways, and why my friend has to suffer, but I trust You now. May You be glorified in my friend's life and also in mine.
Amen"
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Pat, Julie, Brady, Brock, and Chole,
We are all so sad to hear the latest update on Pat. Pat is a wonderful man and we cherish the times that he has shared his quiet strength, humor, and generous spirit with us. Julie, you have been such an inspiration to all your friends. The faith that you show in our Lord and in His plan for your family is so powerful. We pray that the Lord brings you peace that passes all understanding. Please know how much we love you. God bless, Linda and Kent Falk and family
Julie,Brady,Brock,and Chloe-
I question how things have changed so fast over the last few days...none of us thought it would be as it is. If we are ever called by the National Bone Marrow List for transplant, it would give us great honor to gladly help that very special person. It would also mean so much more knowing how hard Pat fought to get there all these months. You've been such great friends to us over the years and we want you to know that our memories we hold dear to our hearts. The ache is very deep for what you all must once again face. After the last couple of days, I really don't know how you and the kids managed for so long. I really don't. But, I'd hate to be something called: Leukemia and have to face PAT SMITH AND HIS FAMILY!
All our love and prayers to you-
Teri,Mark,Cory,and Troy Sweeney
FEW WORDS CAN BE SAID AT THIS TIME OF MUTUAL PAIN & SORROW.
AS WE TRY TO CONSOLE FAMILY & FRIENDS THE SADNESS IN OUR HEARTS AND THE TEARS FROM OUR EYES WILL SUFFICE ANY WORDS WE CAN BORROW.
RECOLLECTING FOND MEMORIES OF OUR FRIEND AND DEARLY BELOVED,LETS OFFER THIS SILENT PRAYER
EVEN THOUGH YOUR GONE FROM THIS EARTH, YOUR SPIRIT WILL ALWAYS BE THERE.
WE WILL MISS YOU FOR SURE,BUT IN OUR HEARTS WE KNOW YOU'RE IN GODS HANDS NOW.
ETERNAL REST, YOUR HEAVENLY REWARD,THROUGH THE MERCY OF GOD WILL YOURS, WE PRAY IT WILL BE.
LOOK DOWN & SMILE ON US AS THE ANGELS ESCORT YOU THROUGH THE GOLDEN GATES FOR ETERNITY.
LET THE LIGHT FROM YOUR HEAVENLY STAR SHINE BRIGHT IN OUR SADDEND EYES, AND EASE OUR ACHING HEARTS.
REST IN PEACE.
ALL OUR PRAYERS...
PATRICK REID AND FAMILY.
Dear Smith Family.
Our love and prayers will continue for all of you. Your strength has been a guide for all of us. Thank You for sharing your journey with us.
Bil and Karen Gallio
Pat & Julie:
With loving thoughts --wishing you peace and continued strength and love.
Kristy Beal
Madelyn asked me to send her love and she wants you to know she is praying for you. She calls me twice a day to find out how you all are coping through this most difficult time.
I keep her connected with this site and have for quite some time.
She is praying for peace and strength.
Much love and comfort from
Jill V-B and Madelyn
I sit at this computer, and try to find words of comfort, I really don't think there are any such words. We know the earthly love for Pat is huge, but no one can love him as much as Our Lord. Remember Pat is Royalty. He is the son of a King! He will be living in the most beautiful mansion we could ever imagine. We pray for peace, for comfort, for lasting faith, and the wisdom to try and understand why.
I wish I could find the right words................
In His Name
Love
Aunt Mary
We are holding you all in our hearts every moment. We are so sad but gain so much strength from all of your courage. We love you Smiths! Please give Pat a huge hug for us and tell him how fortunate we have been to have had him in our lives. He is the ultimate example of character, integrity, humility and courage. Stay strong and feel the love of all your friends and family.
Bob, Debbi, Lauren, Jeff, Steve and Scott
Julie and Pat, Brady, Brock and Chloe
Imagine if all of us who know that words are not enough could be there to join arms to encircle you and your family in a giant hug of support.
Take good care.
Love from the Carlin family
We are so sad to hear the latest update. We are praying for all of you and for comfort and peace for Pat. Julie you are such an inspiration to all. Please know how much we love you.
God Bless,
Joe & Katie Panno
Julie,
This is a sad time for all of us and overwhelmingly so for you and the kids. We've been walking around in shock for two days. I can only imagine your pain and grief. There are no words of comfort that can suffice. We love you guys. Pat will be truly missed.
Mike and Lauren
Pat, Julie and Family,
We are so saddened by the latest turn in events. Your eloquence and grace while blogging your uncensored feelings have enriched our lives. The courage your family has shown is an inspiration. We will continue to pray for your strength.
Our thoughts are with you.
The Ostrand Family
Julie,
So now I am driving by your house every time I come and go from mine. I am wondering, will you be able to bring Pat home? What does your family need to get through this time? There are so many practical issues that we can help you with but I'm not sure what will truely be helpful. Maybe, if you have time, you can let all of us know how we can feel better by helping you.
I spend every moment with you and Pat in my heart.
Love,
Kathi Bialik
Dearest Smith Family and Eden Family,
My heart is sooo incredibly sad for all of you at this time. I'm crying as I write this to you...God-speed Pat. I will continue to pray for you and the family. You are a hero...
Love and hugs,
Stephanie Hanhauser
To the Smith family,I still pray for small miracles. regina & mike
Pat and Julie, We are so sorry to hear the bad news. Our thoughts and prayer's are with your family at this difficult time. Our prayer's are with you and your family. Bob & Alice Birkinshaw
As I sit and read the latest blogs this late evening, I am realizing there are many families who want to help the Smith's. I am one of a few family friends who has been looking after their dogs and home. I can tell you at this moment most of their needs are being met. We have covered the bases I'm fairly sure.......In the coming days, we will try to post a way for those would like to help. I am sure there will be "things" large and small that will be of great help and importance. I know Julie and the kids would never ask of us but, at times such as this, people want to know what it is they can do to ease their sorrow. So, please forgive me for posting in this way tonight. I only use this time to let you all know I will be helping out in this way as soon as time allows. Thank you.
Teri Sweeney
Terri and Marci you have been great!!Not only keeping people informed but organizing help in what little we all can do to ease a small amount of their "gigantic burden"...The fast food coupons, gas cards,etc. are such a help so please post anything else that you can think of !!Everyone in our "little community" has really pulled together and showed human compassion for a family they hardly know.Thank You both at this time for helping all of us to value the importance of being there for our fellow man!!Perkowski family
Dear Smith Family:
My heart and prayers go out to all of you.
May peace and strength be with all of you.
Debra
Sending Pat and everyone who loves him an energy prayer.
Betsy
Julie
This is your cousin Sean. This comes as such a shock to all of us. Please know you and your family will continue to be in our prayers.
Love
Sean, Layla, Aliyah and Aminah
On Behalf of Salvador, and the Magana Family, we would like to let you know that Patrick and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
MAY ANGELS LEAD YOU INTO HEAVEN PAT.
ALL OUR LOVE-
TERI,MARK,CORY,AND TROY SWEENEY
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