Last night about 10:00pm I took our dogs for a walk and couldn't help but notice how clear the sky was and how brightly the stars were shining. That's when I knew today would be a beautiful day, clear, crisp, the kind of day Pat would love to spend down at the beach. At ten o'clock this morning we all hopped aboard "The White Light" in Newport and headed out to scattter Pat's ashes. God gave us an absolutely beautiful day on which to celebrate Pat's life and loves. The ceremony was so peaceful and in true Pat style. Captain Bob led the service and kept it short, another thing Pat would appreciate. I spoke briefly about how much I miss Pat's voice and his touch and that I didn't realize how much I truly and deeply loved this man. If you take nothing else from our experience, please take this...take nothing for granted, don't hesitate to tell someone you love them, live in the moment and find joy in the moment. After the service we all gathered at the Claim Jumper (Pat's favorite) and talked about old times and the times to come. We made plans for our future and we did so with a renewed appreciation for life. We have truly been given a gift, thank you Pat for making us realize how precious and short our time here is. We will live with you in our hearts every moment of every day. A special thank you to Kim for handling things I couldn't even begin to handle, those Smith Boys are something aren't they? We are the luckiest girls in the world. To everyone who shared this special day, the kids and I are forever grateful. Keep us in your prayers as we will all of you. So....live it up people, hug your kids, call your parents and grandparents, do something nice for someone just because...PAY IT FORWARD!!!!!! We love you all.
XOXO,
Jules
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Yes Julie it was an absolutly beautiful day.... thank you for letting us be a part of the family! We love you guys!
The Butler's
Julie, I agree what a beautiful day it was... Bright sun, wonderful bloody mary's and fun at the Claim Jumper... You are a tribute to Pat and we will live on in his honor!! Love all of you.. Sista Sandy
Julie,
At the risk of being repetitive, I don't think we could have had a more perfect day or ceremony. When everyone threw in the roses and Captain Bob circled around it was so peaceful and unbelievably beautiful. Once again, your words inspired us all. And, you're right, Pat would have loved this day at the beach. I'm sure, as you said, he is happy and for sure he knows how much he is loved and missed here on earth.
Love,
Mom
Julie,Brady, Brock and Chloe,
You and your family were in our prayers today and always. I thank God for a clear and beautiful day. Bob and I went to the beach and spent time together with the thoughts of you and your family. May you be contiually guided by the love of your family and each other. We are here if you need anything!
Sinceely,
Bob and Carrie Gerhard
Dear Julie and family,
I was honored to be part of the Smith family tribute to Pat today. It was a perfect day for such a touching and heartfelt ceremony. Your love for Pat hung on your every word. I also truly believe in the PAY IT FORWARD philosophy.
Love, Jo Ann
Julie, Brady,Brock,Chloe-
I'm glad you had such a beautiful day on the water yesterday! And, I hope it lends way for more healing...our prayers have not left you. May you have "peace on earth" in the coming days.
Love-Teri
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